Conscious, Cautious, and Careful!!!

A friend of mine sends me a message over Myspizzle saying, "yo I witnessed some wild shit tonight." Me being Curious Ashmalli was like "tell me." & here goes his response:

"on my way back from the strip club last night my boy pickd up some druggd up white girl brought her to my udda boy crib n he beat it right in front of us...raw. n b4 he picked her up she looked like her pimp or boyfriend beat her up...eww. i am not shmokin wit that dude nooo mooo."

Wow Was all I could say. I saw this friend of mine today, and he proceeded to tell me the rest of the story. You know how the girl was extra drunk & she obviously was totally out of it.

Now I have mad issues with this situation which is why I'm thoroughly disgusted.

1. WTF would you have random sex with some random chick, and "raw" at that. People wonder how they get shit A.k.A. diseases...this is exactly how. It's almost like-let's call him Mr. Shupid ass- was asking for it.

& then poor girl. Although she put herself in the situation, I completely sympathize with her. She obviously has some kind of problems to have been in a situation like this one. & you know after, they just dumped the poor girl on the sidewalk. What an asshole. I swear.

As a generation we need to be more conscious, cautious, and careful when it comes to our very own well beings. If we don't look out for us, no one else will. This is exactly why "Young people ages 15-24 account for 42% of new HIV infections." Yes it is researched folks, that's almost half.

So smarten up folks. We are living in not so friendly times.

Are you talking care of you?

20 FABULOUS REASONS WHY BEING SINGLE IS LOVELY!!!

So today I was on myspace and came across a blog my gurl Drea posted. I loved it and just thought I should share it with you guys so here goes:

20 FABULOUS REASONS WHY BEING SINGLE IS LOVELY!!!

1.

YOU GET TO SLEEP DIAGONALLY IF YOU FEEL THE NEED!!!

2.

THE ABILITY TO HAVE SEX ON YOUR OWN TERMS WHENEVER YOU WANT WITHOUT OBLIGATION!!!

3.

THE ABILITY TO COOK WHAT YOU WANT, WHENEVER YOU WANT WITHOUT A SCHEDULE OR COMPROMISE!!!

4.

THE ABLILITY TO WATCH WHAT YOU WANT ON TV WITHOUT COMPROMISE!!!

5.

THE ABILITY TO PLAY YOUR FAVORITE BAD MUSIC AT MAXIMUM VOLUME!!!

6.

THE BATHROOM STAYS CLEANER FOR LONGER!!!

7.

NO NEED TO STORE EXTRA CLOTHES = MORE ROOM FOR YOUR OWN STUFF!!!

8. YOU GET TO SAVE MONEY ON GAS AS IT IS NOW DAMN NEAR $4.

00 A FUCKING GALLON!!!

9.

YOU ARE FREE TO MEET/CHILL WITH/GET TO KNOW OTHER GUYS/GIRLS WITHOUT FEELING GUILTY!!!

10.

(FOR THE LADIES) YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK BEFORE BED!!!

11.

MORE SLEEP, NO ARGUING OR DISCUSSING FEELINGS OR PROBLEMS AT FOUR AM!!!

12.

YOU HAVE MORE TIME TO WORK OUT, RUN ERRANDS, DISCOVER NEW HOBBIES, OR DO NOTHING - ON YOUR OWN SCHEDULE!!!

13.

YOU HAVE MORE TIME TO RECONNECT W/ YOUR GIRLFRIENDS/HOMIES!!!

14.

MORE TIME TO FOCUS ON ACCOMPLISHING YOUR OWN DREAMS!!!

15.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO CONSIDER THE FEELINGS OF ANYONE OTHER THAN YOURSELF!!!

16.

YOU ARE FREE TO TRAVEL WITHOUT HAVING TO EXPLAIN SHIT!!! JUST GET UP AND GO!!!

17. (FOR THE LADIES) YOU CAN WEAR AS MUCH MAKE-UP AS YOU WANT WITHOUT WORRYING ABOUT IT GETTING SMEARED OR RUINED.

(LIP GLOSS FANATICS, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN!)

18.

NO ONE AROUND TO JUDGE OR QUESTION YOUR LIFESTYLE CHOICES!!!

19.

MORE TIME TO SPEND WITH FAMILY MEMBERS OR LOVED ONES YOU MAY HAVE TAKEN FOR GRANTED (AND WHO KNOWS, THEY MAY BE ABLE TO INTRODUCE YOU TO A SPECIAL PERSON!!)

20.

MOST IMPORTANTLY: BEING SINGLE GIVES YOU TIME TO REDISCOVER SELF-LOVE SO THAT THE NEXT MAN/WOMAN'S LOVE CAN BE FULFILLING AND POSSIBLE!!

-Written by Drea

~ so folks, got any other reasons why you think being single is so darn lovely :)