Sunday, January 4, 2009

This is My Time!

UPDATE

I found out that "the crush" may actually have a girlfriend. Notice how that crush went into quotes right? If I feel like I am being wronged, my feelings for a person will severely change. Because of this, he may be put on the "People Not Making it into 2009" list. Sure he may have had a few days, but it's never too late for him to get on there. But I've decided it's just best to ask and be sure.

I think it's important for me to speak up. I am not a little girl, I have to take hold of my own life.

I was listening to this preacher tonight on t.v. and he was speaking the truth. Here are a few things he said that spoke to me:

- The people who walk out of your life, let them go. Your destiny is not tied to the people who walk away.

- Too many people are trying to ride a dead horse, dismount.

- Don't try to get people to stay in your life, you're only delaying the inevitable.

- When someone leaves your life, they are no longer a part of your destiny.

- God will give you people who are FOR you not WITH you.

- God will always bring the right people into your life but you gotta let go of the wrong ones to make room for the right ones.

- You don't need people in your life who are enabling a dysfunction.

- You don't need people to do things for you, you are equip

- God will never give you the desire with out the ability.

- Me and God are a majority

He just made me feel so much better. About past situations and about this particular one. I'm able to know that, It's okay to let go of things and with the present situation, if it doesn't go how I would have liked, i can let go of that too.

In addition, i don't need anyone to do anything for me. I GOT It. Like the preacher said, "God will never give you the desire with out the ability."

I feel better already.

19 inspirations:

Velle Of CPC said...

This Post Just Helped Me In About A Million Ways. *Sigh*

Velle Of CPC said...

im happy that it made me feel better as well... keep writing cuz im gonna keep reading =)


and yes the world is friggin tiny.

kmx. said...

This post in general answered a lot of questions. I was never highly religious but I believe in God for the most part...(I think?) I don't know...I just happen to think he can't be the only supernatural force out there in this whole entire universe. But this is not the place to discuss my religious views...thats why I have a blog, lol. Anywho,

He should've told you from the jump! Smh, well, if he did. Guys, let me rephrase that people in general tend to conveniently "forget" that they have significant others when trying to get involved w/ other people. I hope he doesn't though, just for your sake. & Even if he does, he should drop her because I'm pretty sure she ain't half as cool as you! & It'll take a smart dude to realize that. (=

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Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

have a blessed 2009 folk

Sexxy Luv said...

sissy that preacher was preaching when he said those things! loves it!

these 2 are my favorite and the ones that i'm making note of:

-God will always bring the right people into your life but you gotta let go of the wrong ones to make room for the right ones.

-God will never give you the desire with out the ability.

♥ sissy

Taryn "Skinny Genes" B. said...

those are some pretty damn true qoutes.

- God will give you people who are FOR you not WITH you.

^^^ it's a lot of people carrying around people who don't contribute anything positive to their lives.

Brothers Blog said...

those are some great words to live by right there.

A.M. said...

Wow I'm supper happy you guys were all so receptive to this post because everything I wrote really touched me. so I'm happy it could do the same for you. Yea,dude was preaching it.

@Velle of CPU:
You got it

@ KMX:
Hey lil chica...
aww you're sweet. I'm sure she isn't half as cool as me as well hahaha :)

@Sissy:
MUAHZZZ thanks for stopping by, you know it makes my day :)

@ Taryn:
Word, and those are the people who are currently on my 2009 list :)

@Brother blog:
Yes...lots of great words :)

dessex said...

This post is great! This post could really be helpful to a lot of people

swag_ambassador said...

preach on that sis.. I respect it.. maintain!!!

Adrianne M said...

I've been keeping up! i didn't comment earlier, but I was gonna tell you to shoot for it and tell your crush, but I'm glad you didnt unfortunately :/
that recently happen to me too, liked him alot but he was still talking/messing with his ex!!! no no.

i love the quote "God will never you the desire, without the ability!" that's going on my vision board!

i feel like we have alot in common besides our initials ;)

Latoya said...

YUP THAT PREACHER IS SO RIGHT 100%

aLwAySz said...

Thats what i get for reading backwards.
Old Boy got a chick? Screw him then.

Over the weekend a Physic was on the radio and she said this is the year for purging.
Time to let go of the EmEffers that don't help you, as well as the clutter.

So your on the right track.

GO AM
*whoop whoop*
GO AM
*whoop whoop*
Lupe Fiasco - Go Baby (listen to it)

12kyle said...

The people who walk out of your life, let them go. Your destiny is not tied to the people who walk away.

that is sooooooo true!!!

Cat Hill said...

So again I'm late but yo I needed this right now...like really seriously...I just officially let go of the frogs and let God show me my prince. Just broke it off w/ this guy bcuz he's really not what I need nor want in my life right now...I came to your blog just in time and dats word...

<3Cat Hill<3

Ms. Lovely said...

I so need to follow those quotes! Glad your 09 is starting off positive

Amber-Alert said...

so ur a joel osteen fan huh? great post...very fitting and im so with u on that list!!!

QuiMarie said...

Joel Osteen... i watched it that morning. I was screaming because his words were ment for me and i see also for you