Thursday, August 28, 2008

Callin' all My Advice Bloggers!!!! :)

Alrighty. I didn't wanna do this, but I just had to. Even changed the URL for my blog so some people who don't have blogs can't find it.

Anyhow, here goes. I've been seeing this guy for almost 2 months now right. I never said anything to you guys because I didn't wanna jinx it.

We met, he offered his number, i declined. He took mine, called me a few times, I never replied. Finally did, and we've been cool ever since. So over the last two months we pretty much see each other almost everyday. Like he is always at my house. I never bring people home because I don't like them to meet my mom, but I guess I did because I started to really like him. My friends like him, my mom likes him, met his dad, he likes me, cool with his friend. So I'm thinking things are progressing.

When we did meet, I do remember mentioning, "I don't want a boyfriend," because that was the state of mind I was in at the time. But then, I started to really like him a lot. I even thought he was boyfriend material. But I know it's still new so I don't wanna push it.

I'm in NY right now, leaving for school in 2 days (school is 1.5 hrs away so not a problem), and I feel like he's been acting a bit differently. So the other night I'm talking to him, and I ask him how much on a scale from 1-10 does he like me and he says a 7. So I'm thinking, "a 7!!! WTF, I'm felling him like a 9." So we're talking about it last night again, and he is still on this seven bullshit.

I ask him, "does it bother you when you ask me questions like this?" and he goes, "well no but a little because it's obvious that you like me more than I like you."
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

This is what I'm thinking. First off, don't assume how I feel. Granted it might be true, but how do you really say something like that?!

& I'm thinking, okay. You're the one over here all the time, calling my mom Mommy and shit, all in my best friend's face, chillin' with me, doing stuff together, and now you're acting brand new just a little bit.

I'm telling you man. Dudes just don't know how to act. So I was type upset & after that convo straight deleted his number out my phone. But honestly it's not because I hate him or anything, I think it's just because I do like him.

What do you guys think? HELP!!!!

10 inspirations:

Sexxy Luv said...

They always find a way to mess it up! maybe he's pulling your leg being funny saying a 7 cause he knows how much you like him, i think you should just fall back especially with school starting.

1/3 said...

Hmm I think since he is playing games you should leave it alone. Like you said school is starting...it may take up your time and energy to start a new relationship. Just my two cents lol

Andre said...

On some real shit, I hate when girls ask questions like that.. Because there's two answer to ? like that : the truth :( and what you wanna hear :)

In all honesty if you cut dude off for being a lil cocky, I'd say that's kinda being wack... cause dudes gonna call again and are you gonna ignore him?

plus dude was right! We can tell when a chick is feeling us more than we are her, but that doesn't change the fact that he feelin you!

That's just my 2¢'s anyways...

Cat Hill said...

Girl I thought you deleted ur blog...but anywhoo I remember I just broke up with this dude so I really didn't want another boyfriend... even though I'm that type that doesn't stay single 4 long...so I met this guy and he was going hard, with wanting my number and all that...anybody that goes that hard I assume that just want to get in my draws...lol I shouldn't think that way but it happens, so to make a long story short we start talking and what not and as soon as I start catching feelings, he want to act all funny...so I'm pissed because as soon as I let my guard down he wants a break...so I seen him recently and I was with a guy friend and he all of sudden wants to talk and wants me to call him...negro please!!! I think that dude told you that because he really is feeling you but he doesn't want u 2 know how much, because with my situation I was playing hard to get at first, then when I showed interest he felt he got me and started playing that hard 2 get game, then when I was gone he wants me back...ugh the confusion of it all...I really don't know what u should do because if someone told me that I would be pissed but if I really liked him I'll probably wouldn't give up on him just yet...dang that was long :)!!!

A.M. said...

@ Sexy Luv:
Nah he was dead ass serious...it's the kind of person he is. & yea, I agree. I'm tryna get all A's this semester...so fallin' back wouldn't be a problem.

@ 1/3

I appreciate your 2 cents lol :)

@ Andre

You know after I thought about it, I totally agree with you. Him and I had a talk and he said he said the , "you like me thing more" because i had an attitude when he said a 7 so if I was upset that he gave me a seven I must have given him a higher number. But things are fine between us now. :)


@ Cat hill:

Yea guys are jerks...not you andre lol...but I'm not giving up on him. He's a cool kind dude 99.9% of the time :)

A.M. said...

@ Sexy Luv:
Nah he was dead ass serious...it's the kind of person he is. & yea, I agree. I'm tryna get all A's this semester...so fallin' back wouldn't be a problem.

@ 1/3

I appreciate your 2 cents lol :)

@ Andre

You know after I thought about it, I totally agree with you. Him and I had a talk and he said he said the , "you like me thing more" because i had an attitude when he said a 7 so if I was upset that he gave me a seven I must have given him a higher number. But things are fine between us now. :)


@ Cat hill:

Yea guys are jerks...not you andre lol...but I'm not giving up on him. He's a cool kind dude 99.9% of the time :)

Ms. Lovely said...

Yea, falling back would be the best choice..He's playing games..leave it alone and focus on what you gotta do. I learned my lesson, no more analyzing these silly ass men

Dallas Black said...

Declined on the first..he called..you didnt respond...sigh...yall making it hard on us!

Dallas Black
thirtyhood.blogspot.com

Miss Moody said...

I think it's because you're leaving. Boys are dumb.

Da Hunni Toya said...

NIGGAHS ARE JUST ASSHEADS THATS ALL.
DAM JARKS!!